Katherine Bouglai

Katherine Bouglai


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the Difference Between the Vision and the Fantasy.

When I first learned about The Secret and the Law of Attraction, I was suffering from fantasy addiction. I used to fantasize about some guy at work or class I was taking and wonder if I could manifest my dreams about this guy into a reality. Never happened. I wondered if perhaps Law of Attraction worked in every other area my life but romance. Now I know the real reason. Law of Attraction does not work... (posted by Katherine 1 year 174 days ago.)
How Do I Know If I Am Being Too Desperate?

Most dating experts will tell you that if you are being too desperate on your dates, it can potentially push your partner away. Since we all know that, we desperately try not to be desperate, sometimes even to the point that we appear uninterested. And that can potentially cause our date to lose interest in us. The question is, where do you find that golden middle where we are just interested enough not to scare... (posted by Katherine 1 year 248 days ago.)
Why Am I Attracted to The Wrong Kind and How Can I Change That?

Do you typically find yourself being attracted to the wrong man or woman? Do you feel like you are drawn to people who have emotional issues, drug or alcohol problems or people who are afraid of commitment? If you can identify, this article may be of value to you. It is not uncommon for me to come across clients who tell me that they have a pattern of personality they are typically... (posted by Katherine 1 year 248 days ago.)
The Importance of Confidence and Self-Esteem in Attracting Your Ideal Relationship.

I always say, having high self-esteem is knowing that youre worth it and having confidence is believing you can have what you want. To be content with what you have your confidence and self-esteem have to be in balance with each other or on the same level. When those two get out of balance or alignment we start feeling restless. Self-esteem is probably the easiest... (posted by Katherine 1 year 248 days ago.)
I Don’t Have Time for Relationship or Dating

Many singles I talk to these days tell me they don’t have time for dating or relationship. My next question for them is, “Do you really WANT to be in a relationship.” The truth comes out when they get hesitant with their response. When I talk to singles these days, I hear a lot of them giving me the same excuse over (posted by Katherine 1 year 248 days ago.)
Letting Go of Fantasies and Expectations When Dating.

When you start dating a new person, do you typically form expectations? Does your mind have a tendency to go further than what you're presented with in the moment? What happens when your fantasies and expectations about this person aren't fulfilled? It is almost impossible not to have expectations when you first start dating new people. If you go online and see a photo of someone you really like... (posted by Katherine 1 year 248 days ago.)